Even when its not easy

If all it took to be success was setting goals then we would all have what we want. We all want things and we all make plans to achieve them. But even with the best of intentions , sometimes life happens.

When reality doesn't meet expectations its certainly becomes easier to let go than to persevere. It becomes easier to believe that you are not worth as you believed, even believe that the universe is playing tricks against you. It gets a lot harder to feel positive.

As much as those are undesirable they are truly instrumental to growth. It is a waste not to learn from them. It is from disappointments that we discover what we truly want and focus on it, it is from these moments that we decide how much effort we are willing to put into it.

See its easier to set goals on New Years' because of the holiday high. Its easier to believe when life is going great. Its on paper than in reality. Its easier said than done. It sounds easier for other people than for ourselves. Its easier for obvious reasons.

Truth is life is noisy and messy, shit happens for no particular reason. A lot of things are out of our control. The best we can do is do our best. When it gets difficult make that cup of tea, whine on social media, cry if you want to, whatever it is that will get you through .In the end be grateful you are alive and take your lessons to the next plan.