Hello World!

Let me take this opportunity to apologize for my lack of online presence, I know it has been a long time since I posted amazing stories. This blog went to the bottom of my priority list since my course load this semester was heavier than usual (8 courses - almost double the previous semesters'). I also took the time to live (you know without having to think about the next blog post) .  So for the second time, hello world.

Honestly, I have been pondering a lot about this post but no one article can summarize how much I have learnt this semester, both mentally and technically. Today I'm  gonna talk about resilience.

 Resilience is not dismissing important things in our lives because of disappointments. Its about facing them , learning from them and being able to take it from there. Its not easy to believe in ourselves when everyone seems to have it figured it out. If there is anything I have learnt from reading the book  Never Eat Alone is that we are never alone, we all go through the same things, some of us are just better at hiding it. A good consolation would be to remember that Abraham Lincoln lost 8 elections, suffered 2 nervous breakdowns and failed twice in business but he didn't quit. Sometimes resilience makes all the difference. With that said, have a wonderful weekend and week ahead.


NB: There will be a few changes around, this blog wont be updated as often as I used to because I have a learnt rad stuff about tech and I will be  dedicating  my time to www.technofunology.blogspot.com .

Everyone has ego .. and that's good!!

You've probably ever wondered why everyone just doesn't get it? I mean why don't see life the way you do, why they don't appreciate what you do or why they won't understand how you conquer your circumstances. Its simple, they simply don't care , maybe they care a little but they also have ego and that's not a problem because you have it too.

See it doesn't matter how important or hardworking or smart you are, people will always put themselves and their interests first. Now we all know that Albert Einstein was a smart person, probably the smartest to walk on this planet, but he also spent two frustrating years upon graduation looking for a teaching post. How could the universities he applied not see that? They were simply protecting their interests and none of those interests involved hiring a recent grad without fancy recommendation letters. Little did they know they were missing out on the greatest scientist in history.

See everyone has ego and sometimes we are convinced that if we didn't have it then the world would be a better place , well, not entirely true. Imagine if everyone cared about everyone and everything else. We would be nice, but we wouldn't have any progress. We only need to care about a few things to get things done. Besides, we can't expect others to take care of us if we don't take care of ourselves.

Its an unfair request to ask others to give up their ego, because ego is natural and a healthy dose of it is good. Major contributions including discoveries and innovations were made to humanity because people put their pride in their work and their ego on the line for it. So ego is not entirely an enemy, we could however work around it. Moral of the story: Stop playing victim and start listening, maybe then the world will start to care. Once you realize this, life is a lot more amazing.

What better way is there to live?

Marie Curie was a legend, she was the first woman to win a Nobel Prize, the first person to win two Nobel Prize in two different sciences, She together with her husband discovered radioactivity, a concept that helped study the structure of the atom, and radium which is central to cancer treatment. That was the mark she left in the world and that's the headline that will go down in history. What this introduction doesn't tell you is how many failures and adversities she had to endure before achieving the role model status. Well, lots of it, in fact following the most unconventional route possible she had to earn whatever she accomplished. (Hint: it was the 19th century, women were not allowed to study let alone in the sciences and a Pole when Russia controlled Poland).

Here are some anecdotes history won't tell you about. She couldn't afford university education, so she made an agreement with her sister where each would for the other. So, she worked to pay for her sister's education, who would return the favor once she graduated. In college, she had to work for her up keep, sometimes fainting due to hunger or the cold. She and her husband were invited to a conference in London but she wasn't allowed to speak  because she was a woman. She wasn't dominated for the Noble Prize by the committee in the first place, her husband was, it was the Swedish mathematician Goester who proposed her , after he was nominated. She had to conduct her research in her backyard because she couldn't get a lab. In short Marie suffered it all , yet she conquered all.

She could have taken the easier route, become a house wife and live happily ever after, but I'm pretty sure that wasn't her definition of happy. I quote her own words, "Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that?We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that thing must be attained. That thing must be attained even if our achievements are lost to history."  This is as inspiring as it gets. When it feels like its all tumbling down, don't quit , instead,  ask yourself, what better is there to live? 

Forget balance , try focus.

 

I'm gonna talk about diamonds and waterfalls today. They may be completely different things but they both illustrate one common and very important lesson; the power of concentration. Diamond is made of Carbon, the same stuff that makes charcoal and pencils, but we don't see anyone singing about the latter and there is a reason; concentration. Diamond is made from Graphite under very intense pressure and temperature, another synonym for concentration. Same applies to waterfalls, ordinary water has nothing special, we use it without even noticing, focus it to pour a cliff and governments will make a fortune out of tourists. 

So much for just one word? Not exactly. We live in a society that upholds normal even though we can't clearly define normal is, we resonate with words like balanced, well rounded, versatile , multitasking among others. Which is a good thing if all these other things contribute to one final goal, otherwise it is of no significant value. The main and probably only reason Leonardo da Vinci is still popular is because he did it all. He did engineering, architecture, painting , biology, mathematics, physics, geology and more, probably all the professions of the 21st century. He did it all, but he didn't do it all at once. Actually , he was primarily a painter, then pursued other fields later in life. 

There is no shortcut to mastery, its focus. It is through focus that priorities are made, that willpower is efficiently used and everything falls into place. It may sound like getting lazy but it actually gives you energy to do even more. 

Have an amazing week ahead!

Moving into the unknown.

We live in a chaotic world. No matter how ordered it may seem, its almost always guaranteed the perfect plan will not work out. Its comes as no surprise, considering the entropy of the universe has been increasing ever since the BigBang. This only means one thing, we are constantly moving into the unknown and sometimes it can be scary. 

If you know Stephen Hawking, you've probably ever wondered how manages to do it all inspite of his limitations.  How he can speak without a voice, write without using his hands and write the most intelligent things in a wheelchair. Part of the answer of the answer to this question is Intel and the other half is failures ,mistakes and lessons learned through trial and error. Intel had to fail about 5 times before inventing ACAT(Assistive Contextually Aware Toolkit), a user interface that was appropriate for Hawking. It took 3 years and 5 failed attempts to come to this conclusion and to many people this may appear to be wasted time.

Problem solving has obviously many processes but the most important and unfortunately the most time consuming is that of recognising what the problem is. It took centuries for us to realise that we are not at the centre of the universe, it took Thomas Edison 1000 failures to invent the light bulb, it took  J.K Rowling 12 rejections to find the right publisher, the list goes on. Ray Kurweil speaks of the exponential growth of the universe which is just a similar idea of slow to no development at early stages and sporadic growth thereafter.  Its important to realise this because we live for problems, we are paid to solve problems, we feel validated by solving problems and when it all feels like a dead end , its good to know that it is not wasted time. All we can do is face the unknown with hope that at the end of the tunnel there will be light.

In this chaotic world, we are all working towards that 'AHA' moment , that moment when we have it all figured out. When we have realised the root cause of the problem and solved it. But we should keep in mind it takes time, otherwise it wouldn't be worth it. The next time you are moving into the unknown , remember this and move forward in faith that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Afterall ..

“Every problem is a gift- without problems we would not grow.” 

--Anthony Robbins.

Just do it!

I'm not just talking about the Nike sports gear that makes you drop all excuses for procrastination , am talking about every other aspect of your life. In most cases we don't do what we want because we think about it too much that we get enough reasons to put it off. Well, the moral of this short post is to tell you to just do it, if you thought about it to the point whether you question yourself whether to do it or not, you need to do it or at least make a decision . I would mention how much this altitude has helped me or other people succeed but I won't because what you need is not more reasoning but more actions. After all, there is only one thing worse than failure and that is regret. So, have an amazing week ahead and keep doing amazing things.

Its okay to be selfish.

Give and you shall receive, play your part, charity begins at home , give, give and give .....etc . You know all these sayings that make you feel guilty for not contributing to a cause or taking the time to treat yourself? Yes, they make you feel like humanity has been restored and its time we started giving more. Well, in all good meaning they forget one thing. You know that person who you only get to see in the mirror? You mean me? Yes , you , you are also a citizen of this world and you also deserve the good life. 
Giving is good, everyone advocates for it, religious institutions, the government, family and society at large. That's a good thing, in simple terms , life is just a trade of giving and receiving. Besides, it always feels good to put someone's else needs above yours, it makes you a respectable human. See, giving is a good thing but like everything else in life, done excessively it is damaging. 

Humanitarians and philanthropists are admirable people, they contribute a lot to society, they change people's lives but what they don't do is deprive themselves for the benefit of others. In fact, they might be  the most selfish people in this world but only that they use this trait wisely. Bill Gates started philanthropy in 1994 after 20 years of Microsoft. He made himself rich before helping others. You may wonder what about Mother Theresa? and Mahatma Gandhi? and all those selfless who died completely penniless. Well, they too are selfish, I even have quotes to prove it.

“I loved my Microsoft: it prepared me for what I’m doing now. In the same way that I got to see the PC and internet revolutions, now I see child death rates coming down. I work very long hours and try to learn as much as I can about these things, but that’s because I enjoy it.” - Bill Gates

"If you do something out of duty, it will deplete you, if you do something out of love, it will energise you" - Mother Theresa

"There is greater joy than caring for someone, It is the joy of knowing you got others to care as well, come on experience it." - Mahatma Gandhi

See, these angels are not motivated by some call of duty to their country or the world. They are motivated by the selfish motive of enjoying what they do and feeling useful.

Moral of the story: its okay to be selfish , actually it is encouraged. Only when you stand with what you believe in and what you are good at will you be sane enough to put something to the table. Don't feel guilty for being selfish, embrace it.